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BookYou Asked For It: Books about Manners

Browse the list below for a selection of great books about manners. Click the book cover or title to go to the book in the online catalog. Click the author's name to search for more books by that author.

Picture Books


This little piggy's book of manners This little piggy's book of manners
Allen, Kathryn Madeline.
Some little pigs remember their manners and others do not.



The Berenstain bears forget their manners The Berenstain bears forget their manners
Berenstain, Stan, 1923-2005.
Mama Bear comes up with a plan to correct the Bear family's rude behavior.



Martha doesn't say sorry Martha doesn't say sorry
Berger, Samantha.
Adorably clad in her pink dress and matching headband, Martha is ready to do just about anything-except say those three little words: I am sorry. But when this sweet but stubborn otter learns that niceties like cookies, piggyback rides, and hugs are for people who apologize, our mischievous heroine learns the ultimately rewarding feeling that comes with saying she's sorry.



The chocolate covered cookie tantrum The chocolate covered cookie tantrum
Blumenthal, Deborah.
Seized with a desire for a cookie while in the park, Sophie discovers that throwing a terrible tantrum will not get her what she wants.



Bootsie Barker bites Bootsie Barker bites
Bottner, Barbara.
Bootsie Barker only wants to play games in which she bites, until one day her friend comes up with a better game.



Franklin is bossy Franklin is bossy
Bourgeois, Paulette.



Clifford's manners Clifford's manners
Bridwell, Norman.
Clifford offers some advice on basic good manners.



I did it, I'm sorry I did it, I'm sorry
Buehner, Caralyn.
Ollie Octopus, Bucky Beaver, Howie Hogg, and other animal characters encounter moral dilemmas involving such virtues as honesty, thoughtfulness, and trustworthiness. The reader is invited to select the appropriate behavior from a series of choices.



Elvis the rooster and the magic words Elvis the rooster and the magic words
Cazet, Denys.
Elvis, a proud rooster, learns a lesson in manners after a handsome peacock visits his farm.



Mary Louise loses her manners Mary Louise loses her manners
Cuneo, Diane.
When Mary Louise starts saying things like "fleas" and "spank you" instead of "please" and "thank you," she realizes that she has lost her manners and goes in search of them.



Please say please! : Penguin's guide to manners Please say please! : Penguin's guide to manners
Cuyler, Margery.
Penguin teaches his animal friends how to behave when they are invited for dinner.



Nobunny's perfect Nobunny's perfect
Dewdney, Anna.
Bunnies, who slurp their juice, forget to say "please," and bite their friends, learn about good manners.



Rude mule Rude mule
Edwards, Pamela Duncan.
A rude mule learns that he has more fun when he uses good manners.



Don't forget your etiquette! : the essential guide to misbehavior Don't forget your etiquette! : the essential guide to misbehavior
Greenberg, David (David T.)
A collection of humorous poems about the proper way to eat soup, visit a museum, and shake hands with the principal.



Milo's special words : a well-behaved little book with wheels to turn and flaps to lift Milo's special words : a well-behaved little book with wheels to turn and flaps to lift
Harper, Charise Mericle.



Thanks a lot, Emily Post! Thanks a lot, Emily Post!
Huget, Jennifer LaRue.
When a mother instructs her children to behave according to Emily Post's rules of etiquette, they respond by insisting that Mother follow the rules, as well. Includes information about Post and selected items from her 1922 book.



Please is a good word to say Please is a good word to say
Joosse, Barbara M.
Harriet gives examples of polite words and expressions to use in various social situations to make them more pleasant.



Don't say that word! Don't say that word!
Katz, Alan.
Michael's rhyming description of his day at school has his mother repeatedly interrupting to prevent him from saying impolite words. Michael can't wait to tell his mom all about his day at school. But how can he, when she keeps stopping him before he gets to the best part?



The rules The rules
Kelley, Marty.
A rhyming survey of the many things that adults tell children to do and not to do.



Do unto otters : a book about manners Do unto otters : a book about manners
Keller, Laurie.
Mr. Rabbit wonders if he will be able to get along with his new neighbors, who are otters, until he is reminded of the golden rule.



Achoo! Achoo!
Kelly, Mij.
This is the story of Suzy Sue and the fateful day when she went Achoo! The truth is she sneezes but doesn't cover her mouth, which sends her animal friends into a frenzy. It's time to teach Suzy Sue some manners. Have they thought of everything?



Excuse me! Excuse me!
Kopelke, Lisa.
A frog who loves to burp learns the value of good manners.



Tissue, please! Tissue, please!
Kopelke, Lisa.
At school, dance rehearsal, and home Frog and his friends sniff when their noses run, until Frog's parents show him how much better it is to use a tissue.



Me first Me first
Lester, Helen.
Pinkerton the pig always manages to be first until he rushes for a sandwich and it turns out to be not the edible kind.



Princess Penelope's parrot Princess Penelope's parrot
Lester, Helen.
An arrogant and greedy princess's chances with a handsome prince are ruined when her parrot repeats to him all the rude comments the princess has made.



When Elephant goes to a party When Elephant goes to a party
Levitin, Sonia, 1934-
Explains all the things that Elephant should know about how to behave when attending a birthday or other kind of party.



Being a pig is nice : a child's-eye view of manners Being a pig is nice : a child's-eye view of manners
Lloyd-Jones, Sally, 1960-
Tired of being told to be polite and to not misbehave, a child considers trading places with various animals and a monster.



The lion's share The lion's share
McElligott, Matthew.
Ant is honored to receive an invitation to lion's annual dinner party, but is shocked when the other guests behave rudely and then accuse her of thinking only of herself.



Mind your manners Mind your manners
Brooke, Samantha.
Winnie-the-Pooh is so excited to attend Christopher Robin's picnic that he forgets his manners. Includes examples of polite alternatives to Pooh's mistakes.



Emily's Christmas gifts Emily's Christmas gifts
Senning, Cindy Post.
In the sometimes hectic days before Christmas, Emily's family appreciates her gifts of caring, sharing, helping, smiling, and loving. Includes a note for parents on how to encourage good manners during the holiday season.



Emily's magic words : please, thank you, and more Emily's magic words : please, thank you, and more
Post, Peggy, 1945-
Emily explains how just a few little words-- please, thank you, hello, good-bye, and excuse me-- can work magic!



Table manners : the edifying story of two friends whose discovery of good manners promises them a glorious future Table manners : the edifying story of two friends whose discovery of good manners promises them a glorious future
Radunsky, Vladimir.
Chester teaches his good friend Dudunya about napkins, "full-mouthed speaking accidents," and other important aspects of proper mealtime behavior.



Will Sheila share? Will Sheila share?
Savadier, Elivia.
Nana helps teach her toddler granddaughter to share.



Emily's sharing and caring book Emily's sharing and caring book
Senning, Cindy Post.



Emily's out and about book Emily's out and about book
Senning, Cindy Post.
On a trip around town with her mother, Emily demonstrates the importance of having good manners.



Mind your manners, B.B. Wolf Mind your manners, B.B. Wolf
Sierra, Judy.
When B.B. Wolf, who now lives in the Villain Villa Retirement Residence, is invited to the library for a storybook tea, he is careful to follow the advice of his crocodile friend and impresses everyone with how polite he can be.



Peace week in Miss Fox's class Peace week in Miss Fox's class
Spinelli, Eileen.
For "Peace Week," the animals in Miss Fox's class find ways to be peaceful instead of squabbling with each other.



The nice book The nice book
Stein, David Ezra.
Monkeys, mice, snakes, cats, and many other animals demonstrate how to act towards others.



Patsy says Patsy says
Tryon, Leslie.
Patsy Pig is determined to teach Ms. Klingensmith's first grade class some manners before their parents come to the Open House.



Mealtime Mealtime
Verdick, Elizabeth.
Simple text and illustrations explain how to behave during mealtime.



Words are not for hurting Words are not for hurting
Verdick, Elizabeth.
Encourages toddlers and preschoolers to express themselves using helpful, not hurtful, words. Includes a note for parents and caregivers on language development.



Big Black Bear Big Black Bear
Yee, Wong Herbert.
A black bear with no manners comes to visit a little girl at home and makes a terrible mess, but another visitor helps him see the error of his ways.



How do dinosaurs eat their food? How do dinosaurs eat their food?
Yolen, Jane.
Just like kids, dinosaurs have a difficult time learning to behave at the table. However, with a little help from Mom and Dad, these young dinosaurs eat all before them with smiles and goodwill.



How do dinosaurs go to school? How do dinosaurs go to school?
Yolen, Jane.
Explains how young dinosaurs should behave during a typical school day.



How do dinosaurs play with their friends? How do dinosaurs play with their friends?
Yolen, Jane.
Rhyming text and illustrations present some of the ways dinosaurs can play with their friends, from hogging the swings to sharing toys.



How do Dinosaurs say good night? How do Dinosaurs say good night?
Yolen, Jane.
Parent and child ponder the different ways a dinosaur can say goodnight, from slamming his tail and pouting to giving a big hug and kiss.



How do dinosaurs say I love you? How do dinosaurs say I love you?
Yolen, Jane.
Illustrations and rhyming text present some of the different ways dinosaurs can express their love, from cleaning up after making a mess to smiling sweetly instead of roaring.



Tea for Ruby Tea for Ruby
York, Sarah Mountbatten-Windsor, Duchess of, 1959-
As Ruby tells everyone about her invitation to tea with the Queen, family and friends remind her about how she should conduct herself.



Mother Goose manners Mother Goose manners
Ziefert, Harriet.
Familiar characters from Mother Goose rhymes present lessons in good manners, such as Little Jack Horner remembering that he should have used a fork to eat his Christmas pie.



Someday we'll have very good manners Someday we'll have very good manners
Ziefert, Harriet.
Characters discuss what they know about good manners and how they will have them someday, but for now they are "just kids."



Non-fiction


365 manners kids should know : games, activities, and other fun ways to help children learn etiquette 365 manners kids should know : games, activities, and other fun ways to help children learn etiquette
Eberly, Sheryl.



Manners can be fun Manners can be fun
Leaf, Munro, 1905-1976.
Stick figure drawings and a brief text tell why good manners are important and how to have good manners at home, at play, and on visits.



Emily Post's the gift of good manners : a parent's guide to raising respectful, kind, considerate children Emily Post's the gift of good manners : a parent's guide to raising respectful, kind, considerate children
Post, Peggy, 1945-



My manners matter : a first look at being polite My manners matter : a first look at being polite
Thomas, Pat, 1959-
Boys and girls learn that good manners are a simple way of showing kindness and respect to people they know₇and to people they don't know. They are shown that being polite makes working and playing together more enjoyable for everyone.



Words are not for hurting Words are not for hurting
Verdick, Elizabeth.
Encourages toddlers and preschoolers to express themselves using helpful, not hurtful, words. Includes a note for parents and caregivers.



Manners Manners
Aliki.
Discusses manners and gives examples of good manners and bad manners.



Perfect pigs : an introduction to manners Perfect pigs : an introduction to manners
Brown, Marc Tolon.
A simple introduction to good manners to use with family, friends, at school, during meals, with pets, on the phone, during games, at parties, and in public places.



It's a spoon, not a shovel It's a spoon, not a shovel
Buehner, Caralyn.



Don't slurp your soup! : a first guide to letter writing, e-mail etiquette, and other everyday manners Don't slurp your soup! : a first guide to letter writing, e-mail etiquette, and other everyday manners
Gibbs, Lynne.
Explores the benefits of good manners in everyday situations, providing specific examples of what the rules are and why it is important to think of how one's actions affect other people.



Emily Post Emily's everyday manners Emily Post Emily's everyday manners
Post, Peggy, 1945-



Manners mash-up : a goofy guide to good behavior Manners mash-up : a goofy guide to good behavior

Presents proper and improper acts of etiquette for young readers in a humorous setting.



Emily Post's the guide to good manners for kids Emily Post's the guide to good manners for kids
Post, Peggy, 1945-



Time to say please! Time to say please!
Willems, Mo.



Manners at school Manners at school
Finn, Carrie.
Colorful illustrations enhance this simple discussion of how children should behave at school.



Manners in public Manners in public
Finn, Carrie.
Simple text enhanced by colorful illustrations discusses appropriate behavior in public.



Manners on the playground Manners on the playground
Finn, Carrie.
Rules for proper behavior on the playground are discussed.



Good manners at home Good manners at home
Marsico, Katie, 1980-



Good manners at school Good manners at school
Marsico, Katie, 1980-



Good manners in a restaurant Good manners in a restaurant
Marsico, Katie, 1980-



Good manners in public Good manners in public
Marsico, Katie, 1980-
Good manners do matter, from the playground to the restaurant to every day at school. Takes the reader through scenarios of behaviors to both use and avoid.



Good manners on the phone Good manners on the phone
Marsico, Katie, 1980-



Good manners on the playground Good manners on the playground
Marsico, Katie, 1980-
Explains the proper behavior to use on the playground and then demonstrates the lessons with simple stories.



Emily Post's table manners for kids Emily Post's table manners for kids
Post, Peggy, 1945-



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